My hot neighbour

As i was about to write my one more bullshit story just like the previous one....i asked myself a question
" Am i living the life i want to live?" 
I then began to think for the answer but i could'nt come up with one..

Now i ask the same question to you..."are you living the life you want to live?" 
Most people would say "no"...well why??....
Some of you may say.."i don't know"..why?...because....we have'nt thought of it...we never felt of asking ourself this question.....we are comfortable...and so on...the excuses can't be finite.

If i ask... have you actually tried acheiving that life you want to live?...now most people would say...yes..
We do it everyday...we take small steps everyday towards our goal...we are studing for that purpose.

Now if i ask... how many of you have tried their hardest or given their best to acheive that life?...most would stay silent....they don't want to say no coz they don't want to sound or appear a loser ..neither they would say yes..coz deep inside they know it's a lie...that they have'nt given there best....

I am in the same state of mind/place as you all are in..i am not living my dream'nt life or desired life...i have'nt given my best yet..but why??....what can be the reason??

If my present state/condition matches to your present condition...then our reason's should also match each other's....so let me guess.....
Now i am gonna ask you all one final question...have you tried achieving your desired life as hard as you have tried getting girls? 

Now if we think about it...the answer is a big "NO" ..

This is bacause..Your dedication to get girls is phenomenal.. You're messaging 10 different girls on Facebook, twitter, whats app every single day. You don't give a crap about who they are, if they are in a relationship,if not you may act somewhat sensible...you may take it serious,fragile and hope it could work out...and.. if they would even want to talk to you!.. You're texting to girls you haven't even seen. You don't even know if that's a girl, and you're investing all your time - days and nights - chatting with that person with a profile picture of that stupid,vulgar, cute looking Alia Bhatt or my favourite Ileana D'cruz or any other of your choice. But notice the amount of hope you need in doing that. It's almost insane. There is no guarantee if any of those girls will ever date you. But you try every single day. You're getting rejected by girls you haven't even met. If 9 out of the 10 girls don't message you back, don't accept your friend request, you have already failed 90% in your task. But that doesn't discourage you. You keep on trying. Look at that amount of will inside of you man. 

Now just imagine for a second, if you saved all that time and put all that hope and will to work for yourself - not a hot girl(surely not your neighbour), not the love of your life, not any girl,any random girl, Just on yourself. Just imagine what you will accomplish!! You know why most girls friend zone guys?(i am one of them) They do it for emotional support. Whenever they have a problem in their lives, they need help, they need motivation, inspiration, they call you. And you put your work aside, and invest all your time and energy in motivating her, solving her problems, reassuring her, and also sometimes even physically doing her work(assignments and many other stuff's)just like the guy choka from PKPN2. And the moment she is happy, she goes to her boyfriend. Her boyfriend always comes first. But the moment she gets depressed and needs someone to help her with her work, she thinks of you.(liquid fromPKPN1) You're basically using all the positivity inside of you to make someone else become successful. ...
There are 90% chances she is just time passing with you....the other reason girls friendzone guys is when she is bored and her boyfriend or best friend is busy..she text's you..and there are many desperate boys who will be willingly ready to timepass with her...even after knowing..they are getting nothing..and all this...just for the pleasure to chat with a girl..

 Is that really what your life is all about? 

This grand gift of life with all its infinite possibilities and opportunities, is that what you narrowed it down to? Chatting with some random girl? More than half of these girls are already dating someone.Why the hell are you even chatting with her in the first place? "Oh, I chat with her because she is my friend" Really? Do you also text with your male friends just as much as do with her? 

    Guys, brothers, you need to stop this. You need to stop this right now. No more excuses. No more bullshit. You have to stop throwing away your entire youth, your entire potential in chasing some random girl. If you are obsessed with some girl, get out of it right now or just say her what you fell or someone else will. If you are obsessed with your ex, get out of it. If some chick calls you only when she needs you, and you know that too, SCREW HER. GET  HER OUT OF YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW...

Now i give you four reasons why you should kick this girl out of your life and put your energy into changing your life's forever

1. You do it for your self esteem.

Because all these rejections will have a serious impact on your self-esteem. An impact that you most certainly don't need, and don't deserve at all. And at last we have one precious thing called self-respect...which is surely important than some shitty chick...

2. What is a greater feeling than love?  

To find out the answer of above question's ...it may be freedom for some, acheivement for some...anything you get it will be better than felling of love.

3: Money (it's never enough)

Because money gives you a better lifestyle, it gives you better options,coz you are only good as your options are.... and it gives you the freedom to do whatever the fuck you want! Forget your all these for a year or two or however long it takes to be successful. Become successful, and you will get everything yes everything..!!. 
    Why? Successful.... Because girls get attracted to successful guys. It's not a mystery. It's chemistry...

4: The last reason is very important...so  make youself one suitable for you..

Spend time with your friends...not gonna guide you about your personal life..u r on your own.

No more wasting time thinking about wasted time.

Just put all that insane dedication with which you pursue those relationships everyday, and shift that dedication from girls to self-betterment. Acknowledge that you have dreams, and there is nobody in life that is going to help you get there. 

You are on your own.

For guys who cannot stop chasing girls...

This is how it works
Guys want attractive girls, girls want stable/strong guys. In modern context, the strong guy is one who can run the family well for decades and able to look after the family, both financially & psychologically. This is the type of guy a woman seeks.

At 20, girls could show their attractive ability, but there is no way for the boy to show their financial/mental stability. This means that while guys chase girls in the college, the girls have very few data points to validate whether you will turn out to be the stable, family guy who can take her through the tough times of her life..

So... 

 Stop chasing ghosts and concentrate on people that are attracted towards you. DO NOT CHASE WOMEN WHO ARE NOT INTERESTED IN YOU BECAUSE THEY A R E    N O T     I N T E R E S T E D.   Trust me on this one.

And no, not everyone on this world will be attracted towards you. Chasing people who are not is nothing else but wasting your time. If you know a girl you aren't at all attracted to is chasing you all the time, would that eventually make you fall in love with her? Of course not. You'd be escaping even faster.

Don't worry. You will meet another one. We've all been there, through that. Save yourself a lot of misery and quit.

And for the one's who say that
Men will be men (Royal stag music  cd's)..we can't stop chasing girl's.it's in our DNA ..We have no control over it..

Here is my......try

Come on, sweetie. Don't act like you don't have any control over yourself. Make yourself a schedule for how you will spend your time, heavy on achievement stuff, lighter on dating and partying. Extremes aren't good for anyone, so I don't recommend you go all crazy not having any fun. Admit it: you can do this. You are not a baby. You are a man. Act like the best, most successful man you can think of and you will be fine.

And even that does'nt work for you...then i strongly recommend you to watch this video where brother greene talks on how to be a real man... -- "How to be a real man"

Another piece of advice....

Never try to hit on your neighbour even though if she is hot, forget that you have a neighbour...

Because.

"You can change your friend's but not your neighbour's".